Revisiting Boundaries

Dave showed up at 7:20 this morning.  To clip Connor's fingernails.  Yeah right.  Anyway after he left I texted him and said he needs to wait for a response to his texts before just coming over.  He had texted at 6:20 this morning to say he was coming.  I think he is trying to keep control over us or he wanted to see who was here.  It is so time for me to work on keeping my boundaries.  And it is time to push them further out.  And while I am trying to be gracious and rational, I am working with an alcoholic man.  Argh.