I'm back to thinking the little kids are not going to get their stuff. There has been no effort to return their stuff from Papa's house. And enough time has passed that it is just stuff. And if it is just stuff then Doug no longer has all the control he thinks he does.
I found it annoying that I felt the need to go check all the time to see if the bed was out on the driveway. It is a control issue and I fell right back into co-dependent behavior. All Mom's request did was let him know that he still had an upper hand.
And so on with the rest of life. Stuff isn't worth it. If we get it great. If we don't well that will just be the way it is and shows more who he is than we are.
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