Since Doug is engaged I am working very hard on my feelings and saying the serenity prayer. Trying to decide if it is Kristi herself I disliked or her parents who there is no question I dislike. I'm not going to be fond of anyone who accuses me of trying to murder their child. I know that I tend to sometimes pass down the sins of the father onto the child. I know that isn't right. And maybe I have been doing that. There is other history, but it really isn't about me and shouldn't be. So Kristi and I have made contact and are tentatively working through that.
I've got to say that through this whole time frame of her new relationship with Doug she has handled herself with grace. Didn't push in any way at us. Just let life happen even though she knew we weren't exactly pleased. So we'll see how it goes.
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