My Blog

It is my blog and it belongs to me. I can post whatever I want on it as long as I am not slanderous or libelous. So today at lunch we were talking about one of my posts and my friend Mona said she thought I wasn't going to post anything like that anymore. Ahh. Well I don't on facebook. And mostly I don't make postings here to stir the pot. But I do make posts about my feelings when I want to. So again it is my blog and it belongs to me. If you don't like it or it hurts your feelings...don't read it.

Which goes to giving our children advice, solicited or unsolicited. We tell our children what we think because we always want what is best for them and for them to be happy. And sometimes we are just pointing something out that we see as not being in their best interests. So when one of them does stuff in secret it means they already know what our advice would have been, but they want to do it anyway. What do you say to that? Nothing. All of my children have to learn life's lessons the hard way and so it goes.

Sometimes we are right and sometimes we are not. We are not all knowing. Time always proves one way or the other. I am thinking that we were wrong on Doug's relationship with Kristi. I am thinking Tanya will be nickeled and dimed by her old car. And dang if Myk isn't all up in the air yet, but he is still young. But they are grown-ups and will have to suffer any consequences of their actions, and not come crying if we were right.