I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm trying to treat my adult child as an adult and let him suffer his consequences of his actions. I try not to think about what he is doing. I try not to worry about it. So Dave texts me daily giving me updates. I don't want that. It feels like an anchor pulling me back down into the land of co-dependence. And I am sure that is exactly what Dave intends. Because if I am in the land of co-dependence he can manipulate me also. Arrgghhh.
Dave kicked him out tonight and then immediately texts me forewarning me that Mike may be coming to hit me up for money or a ride. Then an hour later he texts me again asking if Mike ever showed up. Let it go.
And now it is time for sleep.
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