I don't know what he was thinking, but he decided to lock me out of the online banking. And that pissed me off. And it moved me. I FINALLY made the appointment with an attorney. Then I took my debit card and the checks I found and gave them to him. Told him about the appointment.
We had an actual conversation. I told him what I wanted and he agreed. He seemed relieved that I was not wanting the house and property. Because as I was told it is family land. Anyhow it is good that initially he is not up in arms. I'm pretty sure what I want is what I will get. If it were to all be added up, I'm not taking half.
In the midst of this conversation he commented that he thought we would stay married until I wanted to get remarried..Say What? For tax purposes. I had gotten that gist before and was shocked then. Still amazed at the thought process. No I'm not going to stay married while living somewhere else. I want to be self sufficient with a small sense of security. I need to be on my own for that.
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