John has some really impressive traits. He adores his kids. He is kind about his ex-wife. He has a really nice smile. And then you notice he drinks a bit, and while there is nothing wrong with that.....
I am betting I would have had that instantaneous click with him the first time I met him. What happened instead is he got in my space and that gave me the deer in the headlight response. I don't like my personal space invaded by most people. I was so in tuned to that that I missed whether my click happened. He can get in my space now and it's fine. I can flirt with him and it's fine. No long term relationships though.......been there, done that already.
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