Limbo

It seems like I have lived so long in limbo that it is becoming a normal state of being.  It is time for us to have a home.  Now the current plan is waiting for the current tenants at Westwood to move and then we would move there.  And that is how things were working.
The downside of that is, as we have been here, it has become quite apparent that my mom cannot live by herself.  No matter what her opinion is.  And so it leads to this quandary.  It does not work the four of us living together.  We are all in agreement on that.
And so the question is what do we do now? Trying to find an outcome that makes every one happy and unfortunately that just isn't going to happen either.  It is hard being the decision maker.
On a positive note....I found my mom's cemetary deed and we did buy two plots in 1989 when my dad died.  I'm glad I found that and no longer have to worry about that.