Saturday, June 23, 2018

Party


We were invited to a half birthday party.  Taylor has a Dec. 26th birthday which means he never "really" has a birthday party.  So as a kid his mom started the half birthdays for him to have a party that his friends could come to.  I'm not sure if that tradition followed him into adulthood, but this year he is 30 years-old.  His wife wanted it to be special so she threw a surprise half birthday party for him.
I am always amazed at Leslie and Taylor.  I've known her for many years now through work.  And he comes with the package.  I get glimpses of him on facebook and from funny stories I hear at work.  They are such a great couple and they added a boy to their family this last year.  And he is amazing.
So before the party Leslie had sent out a thing asking for advice for Taylor for his big 30.  My advice would have been live your life.  Don't spend all your time making a living and miss out on having a life. Life is short and fleeting and there is no guarantees about tomorrow.  Travel when you can.  Play when you can.  Do enough work to have a purpose, but don't let it be all consuming. 
I did not give my advice to Leslie.  One of the things I love about Taylor is he is already living my advice.  They go for walks and boat rides.  They have a great family life and today just showed that more.  One of the things I am envious of Leslie and Taylor is that close family life.  Today I met both sets of parents and siblings and nieces and nephews.  They all show up and do things together.  Not just for holidays where they get gifts...if you know what I mean.  So I'm happy to not give advice to Taylor. 
A couple people I knew from work showed up and we got to play that catch up game that happens outside of work.  I love the stories of the works behind the scenes.  I met a couple of really interesting people and think it would have been great to spend more time with them and converse.  But it was a party.  I will say I am in awe of purple braids and women who can juggle. 
It was a great party and I'm glad we were invited. 

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