So I label myself passive aggressive. Someone said something about my personality and it got me thinking. What is my definition of passive aggressive? It is more than just doing what needs to be done to do what I want to do. It is part of being non-confrontational. I don't necessarily lie, but I may sin by omission. That said I have no problem lying to an addict not in recovery. Saves me the confrontation. And they don't have my respect. No respect.....means no respect. They don't respect me so I have no reason to show respect to them.
I prefer to be quiet and unobtrusive. I don't tend to get involved unless dragged in. I like things peaceful with no stress. I want to fix things behind the scene. Yeah like that ever works out.
All my life I have been quiet. All my life I have dealt with addicts and the consequences of their addiction. All my life I have had great amounts of stress. It is no wonder I learned at an early age how to stuff feelings and become quite passive aggressive. Saves a whole lot of trouble.
Doesn't mean it is good. Doesn't mean it is bad. It just is.
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