I think I am in need of a break from facebook. Aunt Traci just recently broke up with her boyfriend and she has been posting a lot of those memes that are just sad. And a few would be okay, but she posts way more than she should....as far as they aren't doing her any good, but keeping her down. And so I was thinking boy she needs to take a break from facebook.
Obviously I am not completely over that seasonal slump. So one of Cassie's Aunts posted on her page about showing Jazz something. And it just struck me. Wow. Jazzlynn is so blessed and she doesn't even know it. Cassie's family from here mail her things. They make nice comments on Cassie's page about Jazzlynn and now Niklaus. And they should. But as I keep saying Cassie has four children. You can't tell that by her facebook page though. On her life events she shows two, count them two babies with number one being in 2014.
Not one of Cassie's relatives, except Aunt Traci, has asked about the littles. Shoot Cassie doesn't ask about them. And I got tired of always being the one making the effort so I stopped. And with my stopping so did the contact, unless it is a birthday or Christmas.
I had already unfriended most of the relatives because it made me too sad. To see all the picnics and family gatherings right here in our area that the littles are never invited to. We didn't even know about them until after wards with all the pictures on facebook. Now granted, the littles are not sad. They don't miss what they don't know they don't have. I am sad and I miss what they don't have and should. And since I unfriended all the cousins I don't see what they miss. And it helps. But I can't in good conscious unfriend Cassie to not see the rest of it.
So I think I need to take a break from all of facebook. Yeah, that will probably last all of two days. I can't change what is. I can only change how I react to it, but if I don't see it I have nothing to react to. Except that what I always have to react to.
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