Had a chat with the little woman today. I had told her of the plans to move. She got mad and said is that why you made us move out here so you could move by yourself. No, no it was not. So I explained she needs to live with her mom and her siblings and David. And it had nothing to do with me moving. Me moving is because I am going to sell Mom's house. And I need to have somewhere to live. I'm really surprised she didn't ask me to move out there, but that is okay. I would have had to tell her no.
We also talked about when exactly I was coming to visit and that seemed to make her calmer. She doesn't like change. And she likes to know exactly what is happening and when. It's partly normal and partly her anxiety. She felt better by the end of the conversation and more understanding.
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