Now I understand the stuck in a loop thing that the little woman gets sometimes. I have been pondering the Mom situation for several weeks now. Back and forth, back and forth. And some how I got it in my head it had to be either or. Where she is or with me. Finally the cloud lifted and I realized there are a lot more choices than that.
Right now I have a lot of patience with Mom. And it is because I don't have to deal with dementia 24/7. And I need to maintain that patience. So I'm back to being fine. If we get asked to move her because she is too much work, then we get asked and we find some other place. But that place is not home with me.
Hopefully we get positive results at the doctor's office tomorrow and it leaves us with the status quo for awhile. And for now I can breathe again.
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