This is my response to the email. The only things I didn't address was the girls coming to live here and drinking. Papa showed Elizabeth where our outside key was if she ever needed a safe place to come to, whether it was for an hour, a day or whatever. Somehow Tanya took that to mean live here as the only thing that was talked about.
I had to think about this and how I wanted to act on it. And if it were not for the tagging in of Doug and Kristie I would not even dignify this with a response.
Most of this is a rehash of a previous email from a few months back. And in that time I have not invited Elizabeth over at all to hang out or spend the night. So why are we
going over the need to check with you on that again?
Adrianna has been potty trained for a year. And I did say I was going to incorporate an Adrianna day in when she was potty trained. Unfortunately for her my life changed. We became full time care takers of
Audrie. I did still manage to get a couple of days in for her, but that is the way it goes. I never ever said I had emailed you about starting Adrianna days, so you are right...it is bs. Never happened. So I don't know how you could have responded to it. What I said was I had made a facebook post about thinking about starting them. You didn't respond, but as you so aptly say..it doesn't matter to you if I have them or not. And yet you just threatened my Elizabeth day if I don't incorporate one. When would I have time to do that? I was struggling already to keep my Elizabeth day and keep it fun and interesting for ELizabeth.
That said. I have now ended my Elizabeth days. That is my action to this email. So we won't have to worry anymore about any changes that might come up because it won't happen. I have never said you weren't her mother and I don't badmouth you to her. I do on occassion share my truth. An example is I happened to agree with Elizabeth that you going out with a married man was wrong. That is not bad mouthing.
We don't need to discuss the cell phone because it became a non-issue when I cancelled Elizabeth days. I do agree with you that she needs to respond to you. I just don't think it was necessary for you to text her that you would be gone for a few at dinnertime. My opinion.
Last but not least. I have no idea what you are talking about. But I sure don't like the accusation. And it is way too late for you to take it back. I did not know anything about your newest boyfriend. Last I heard you were still chasing the married guy. So there is no way I researched your newest one and turned him into the courts. Sorry. You'll have to look some place else for that answer. And in the meantime realize that you fucked up by accusing me of doing something I didn't do.
And then you say...oh I want to mend the relationship. No you don't. You had a year to do that. So you just got everything that you wanted. I already was leaving you alone to live your life the way you want to. You told me there was nothing wrong with the choices you make, and I disagree. However it is your life to live and your choices to make so rather than tell you my opinion I leave it alone. And yet this is what I get. This is the first contact you have had with us since Christmas and it is tripe.
I find right now that you are a little too toxic for me and I have nothing to share with you. So I will leave you to your life, as I really don't have time to play these games.
D.
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