Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Holding Pattern

So neither the parent or possible parent showed up today for visitation.  That prompted a conversation between Papa and Beth, the social worker.  Feels like it is time to do something different.  While Beth agrees with us, the paternity issue has to be resolved.  And in the mean time, Wesley has been pushing for visitation.  Remember that Wesley is another potential father.  And since he has been pushing he has been granted that request.  So Wed. will now include an hour for him to see the little man.  And if he IS the father that will all be fine and dandy.  But if he isn't, it is a waste of every one's time.  Wesley is ready for his test and Mike is or was ready for his test.  We are just waiting on Cassie.
And I finally got an explanation of why Cassie has to be tested.  Her test removes half of the DNA pattern and then you get more accurate results with the other half to a father.  Made sense once it was better explained.
But again or still, we are in a holding pattern, but with visitation thrown in for Wesley.  That should be interesting.  Maybe.
And in the meantime I am enjoying all the kisses, cuddles, pinches and smiles he has to offer.  I love that little man and he loves me.

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