I was just writing a blip about Catie. And I realized that yes, I like life easy. Not that life is ever easy with littles. But I try not to make it more complicated. I no longer carry relationships where I do all the giving. I'm not going to do all the work.
For some reason I have always found people who are more than willing to let me. And sometimes that is okay or has been in the past. Until it wasn't. I'm old enough now that I don't have time for that. There has to be a certain amount of give and take. I'm not going to do all the inviting and making plans and paying. So old relationships, new relationships......there has to be a certain amount of respect and honesty on both sides.
And as I like to say and it is true in relationships also.....if it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse. If you are too busy all the time, you are too busy. Sometimes I'm busy, but I have always tried to find time for those important to me.
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