So while in Georgia Doug told us that he and Kristie had gotten married in August. Gave us a song and dance about it being for her kids and that no one knows. And how they are going to have a ceremony in California next year so the guest list will be limited. Okay. The marriage didn't surprise me at all. I expected it last May and was surprised that it didn't happen. But I'm sitting there trying to process the secret aspect. The fact that we are not important at all. How much my relationships are not what I think they are (and I'm getting tired of saying that).
So we come home and I'm still trying to process. Still not getting it. I cannot fathom it. And then I hear the rest of the story. Ah. We were not worthy because we had issues with Kristie before and even though we had worked them out we would still be too critical of the quickness of the wedding to know about it when it occurred. They did not want to hear any criticism. Okay then.
And so life goes on. For me the relationships have changed (again). We welcome Kristie into the family. And that is all that can be said about it. But at least the rest of the story makes it make a little bit of sense.
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