Oy

So I had a friend request and a private message on facebook from a supposed friend of Cassie's. Wanted me to call her. So I did. Turns out she was fishing for information for her uncle. Seems he thinks he is the little man's dad and wants a paternity test. They did the math and since Cassie was living with him in Jan it had to be his baby. Okay then. My suggestion to her was to tell him to go to CPS and talk to them. First...little man was conceived at the end of Feb. Second...it is all in CPS's hands, not mine. She wanted me to talk to him. No can do. I won't talk to anyone until CPS tells me I have to because they have a definitive answer as to who the daddy is.

She then proceeded to tell me who he is. Oh joy. Tried to tell me how he doesn't do any drugs. First I figure that anyone hanging with Cassie does drugs. Second I don't care. If he turns out to be the daddy he will have to jump through all the same hoops Cassie does. That involves UAs to prove no drug use. Second I still think he is just counting his chickens before they are hatched.

Maybe I should be grateful that here is a man willing to step up for parenting. I'm surprised since he already has three other kids with three different women. I'm surprised he would want to pay child support for another kid. Or maybe it is to get more support from dshs. I know that sounds bad of me, but that is what the family does of the one child of his that I know. I'm not impressed.