Dave came over just as we were leaving last night to get Connor's hair cut. I needed to broach the subject of me having guardianship with him so he wasn't surprised later on. So we took him with us and that way he got to be included in one of those big firsts for kids.
On the way home I told him about my email from Beth, our social worker. His reaction was it wasn't a good idea. We would be taking a tax hit. Huh? Well head of household pays a lot more than married filing joint. I have no clue if that is true as I have never done taxes not married And anyway I don't expect to be married when I file taxes next year.
I guess what amazed me is he seems to be under the impression that even though we don't live together anymore we will stay married while he gets his act together. I figure he has had the last year to get his act together and has made no efforts whatsoever. That says to me he doesn't plan on getting it together. And my only choice now is to protect myself and that means divorce.
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