Oy

So I bought dog food for Dave because he figured he wouldn't be able to handle a 40 pound bag.  We dropped it off.  When I set up the work order for a landline they told me how to transfer the account at the house to Dave's name.  So I told him that next week we needed to do a change in responsibility.  For the phone.  He said....oh he thought he was getting the kids back.  I just looked at him and actually said "not hardly".  Honestly I do not know how his brain works.  Why would you ever think that when you know you are in relapse and you aren't doing anything about it?