Oy

It turns out that ff miles do not disappear with death.  The account is not closed as the website says.  So therefore we are back to again.....those miles better be accounted for in the estate.  Stupid rollercoaster.  

Mike found out that Doug does have the ashes and hasn't done anything with them yet.  That didn't surprise me.  Mike was happy that this way he can be included in things and not have to do his own thing later down the road.  And he will get to be in on the requesting A sentimental item.  

And now back to my rolling with it.  The rollercoaster isn't any fun.  Just want to get back to living life and taking care of the important stuff.

That said I talked to Mike about what I want my will to say.  It really is time to get it done.  I seriously can't remember what my current one says.  And since I'm not getting it back it is time to make it null and void.  Mike was fine with everything I told him.  He didn't even squawk at Cassie being included.  I just want both parents to not feel the need to use the littles share for their own.  

And of course if Mike ever has any other children I will have to rethink the whole thing.....but I won't have the relationship with any others that I have with these two.