Obviously we are still in the honeymoon period. The littles don't necessarily behave all the time, but we aren't having any meltdowns whatsoever. The therapist asked what I though had changed. Man's voice. They want to please their parent. I don't know. He included breaking the system in the household. We are hardwired to love our parents and want their approval. In this case...they can get that. They haven't been adopted never to see their birth parents again. They were not abused beyond the initial drug use invitro. They weren't neglected.
Each day is a blessing. And here is hoping that Daddy keeps up the good work and stays clean. That we all learn our new normal and that all that anger dissipates and the little man doesn't feel the need to be so aggressive. This is my family for all the trials and tribulations. I'll take the honeymoom period for all the time it lasts and then we work on the rest.
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