Funny how times of stress sometimes bring families together and sometimes tear them apart. So Tanya is kind of back in our life. And we shall see if she remains so once this is all done. Doug on the other hand is showing his addiction. Not living with Dave I have gotten used to not dealing with the affects of it. The control issues, the manipulating, the whole thing. So I fall right back into old patterns. And I hate that.
So after Layne's came to get Dave this morning we were asked to leave so they could clean. The whole rest of the family weren't leaving. Only us. Wait, what? Yeah turns out cleaning had nothing to do with it. The littles were too annoying to Doug and Kristie and that was why we were asked to leave. Wait, what? Yes they were asked to leave their second home because they were making noise. And let me tell you they weren't making anywhere near the noise they can. I thought they actually did pretty good considering the circumstances. But that was fine. We went home and spent the day by ourselves. Because we really didn't want to be there.
So I am still going to write off all the treating us badly as grief. And I'm letting go all the rest. Doug wants to do it all and be secretive about all of it he can have it and do that. After the funeral I really don't have to have anything more to do with him while he is in his own addiction. And honestly he wasn't going to have anything more to do with us either. Just like the last twenty years. And that will be fine.
I'm sure I will be informed of when the funeral will be. Probably by Tanya. Afterall she is the one who told me today Doug has deemed it okay for the littles to have their toys, their books and their bunkbed from Papa's house.
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