WTF

So I assumed from my text that I got about Mike's transportation that it meant the estate would not pay for Mike's way.  And that is probably correct.  I guess Doug did buy a ticket but just didn't tell me about it and he returned it.  How considerate.....let me and the littles make two ten  hours trips to make sure that Mike could come to the funeral.
Then Mike informs me that he asked Doug for Dave's cell phone and mini ipad and Doug told him no.  All electronics are going to be sold.  Wait, what?  I told Mike to tell Doug that is not how it works.  Heirs can pick what they want and it just is part of their share.  Saves a whole lot of work for the executor who then doesn't have to take the time to "sell" stuff.  Well Mike brought that up for his two requests and Doug said he would ask the attorney about it.  I'm not sure Doug has even been to see the attorney to start the legal process.
And then then I went and visited Norman.  He told me he was under the impression that there was no money in the estate and so he offered to pay for the funeral.  Now he did this out of the goodness of his heart and it probably made him feel good to be able to do it.  However, Doug should not have led  him to believe there was not much money.  I didn't have any respect left anyway, but that was pretty low.  Kudos to Norman though.  And when he offered help to me I did not take it.  That is not why I was there.
Seriously WTF is wrong with Doug?  I am going to be so relieved when this is all over and he can go back where he came from.   Has only been a bit player in our life for the last twenty years and maybe hindsight says that is a good thing.  Because the lying all the time just annoys me.  And I know if you are using you are lying.  Doesn't make it any easier to take.